Housemate #2 - Tahan

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Sorceress said:
LOL what show are you watching?! If Jade was acutely aware of the cameras she wouldn't make such an idiot of herself with Ed.
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I though this at first too.
lately I feel she seems stagey, the kisses are allways very weird, and I have seen her checking camera angles.
Tahan looks in the mirror - Jade looks for the camera.

It would make sense she finds it difficult to forget/is aware the cameras since she's been on several TV shows.

Why would camera awareness make her change how she throws herself allover ED? She thinks it's just fine.
 
Got to say I laughed when I read Tahan said "I have no friends left in here, I'll be up every week now" or something of that nature. Like, you've been up for five weeks in a row, this should have dawned on you a little earlier sis!
 
Sweet_Geek said:
You know what's funny, if I was to compare myself to someone in the house, it would be tahan hands down. I say things before thinking it through, I'm upfront and honest and I'm a little flakey. I will change my mind that many times it is ridiculous and I don't care. But for so e reason I relate to jade more, because I can be quiet and I can be extremely insecure and I guess in a way I feel like I want to protect someone like jade. Sounds ridiculous, but there is no reason why you like a hm, you just do. I don't have to justify it and neither do you or anyone else.
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Do you think that Jade is extremely insecure?
 
I like Tahan because she is real. She doesn't fake anything. Some people call it backtracking and I call it explaining herself. Like Ed says there is more to Tahan than what the editors choose to reveal to us.
 
harricane9 said:
it is because of fans like you that i dislike jade, nothing to do with her at all.
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I have never understood this type of logic. Disliking a housemate simply because a poster that likes them dislikes your favourite is kind of ridiculous. I'm not taking a personal stab at you here. It's something I've seen before quite a bit amongst Big Brother fans. Just assuming that the only reason that someone could dislike Tahan is because their favourite housemate does is incredibly biased and short-sighted. I happen to like Jade, however I started developing issues with Tahan well before I came aware that Jade disliked her. Most posters are intelligent enough to be able to come up with their own opinions regarding which housemates they like and dislike themselves.

If you disagree with a poster's opinion, that's fine...however you are coming across as incredibly condescending and rude yourself by lumping all of Jade's fans in together and attempting to dictate who they like with comments such as the one quoted and "why can't all Jade fans be like you".

I agree that the poster you are referring to could have perhaps worded their post a little more eloquently, however you are coming across as incredibly immature with comments like "you are just butthurt that she got so many votes to save". It's a shame people have to respond like that just because someone says something negative about their favourite housemate.
 
Splashedblue said:
I don't call it an apology when it wasn't even properly sincere and knowing her lies before she probably twisted it to make it better than it seemed. Anybody remember the Katie and Lucy situation? "Oh, I didn't mean it like that, I meant blah blah blah...." She lied through her teeth just so she could save herself when we all know she meant it.
She's just one of those girls who say something mean, pretends its a joke when they're being dead serious.
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harricane9 said:
and how would you know know whether it was sincere or not? and which lies?
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reminds me of this

[video=youtube;T-xQep4CTJ8]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T-xQep4CTJ8[/video]
 
Sweet_Geek said:
I don't think she is extremely insecure. I think she does have insecurities about who she is and if she is enough.
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Jade made it perfectly clear to Drew, after the marriage break-up, that they would never be a couple which then opened the door for Tully to be there for Drew.
Ed is sticking to some sort of game plan not to get involved with a woman in the house.
When things didn't work out with Ed and Tully had become close friends with Drew, Jade realised she had counted her chickens before they hatched.
On the outside Jade would have options but in the BB house options are limited.
Jade looks more stunned to me that she has been knocked back.
 
Topaz said:
Jade made it perfectly clear to Drew, after the marriage break-up, that they would never be a couple which then opened the door for Tully to be there for Drew.
Ed is sticking to some sort of game plan not to get involved with a woman in the house.
When things didn't work out with Ed and Tully had become close friends with Drew, Jade realised she had counted her chickens before they hatched.
On the outside Jade would have options but in the BB house options are limited.
Jade looks more stunned to me that she has been knocked back.
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Some of these sound more like assumptions to me. Drew was a friend and nothing more. She was upset at the fact that their friendship suffered. Lets not confuse their fake marriage being an actual relationship.
 
Sweet_Geek said:
Some of these sound more like assumptions to me. Drew was a friend and nothing more. She was upset at the fact that their friendship suffered. Lets not confuse their fake marriage being an actual relationship.
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Assumptions... yes.
I understand it was a fake marriage.... but Jade did tell Drew she was not interested in him, Drew has said that Jade has given him mixed messages.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not against Jade but the girl has tried to make connections that have not worked out.
 
Now Jade is upset after Matts farewell vid. - Saying he had nothing to say about her, and could have been his fault that he did not get to know her. He was in the house for 50 days but did not take the time. Just talked about her behind her back.
Ed and Jade spent a lot of time discussing things and Matt has shot all that down in flames. Hence Eds response....awkward.
 
Topaz said:
Assumptions... yes.
I understand it was a fake marriage.... but Jade did tell Drew she was not interested in him, Drew has said that Jade has given him mixed messages.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not against Jade but the girl has tried to make connections that have not worked out.
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Exactly drew said that jade gave him mixed messages. So drew has made that assumption, when all it was is jade being a flirt and he read into it more. It is no secret that the boys think she is a flirt actually even the women think that. Therefore in my opinion jade just flirts and drew took it to be more even though she stated they were friends and he was like her brother. Jade did more than flirt with ed though. She treated both men differently. One was a friend/companion in the house, the other was a love interest. She has made connections more than others in the house actually. She has made loyal friends with mikkayla, Katie, Lucy and Tim. So it seems her love interest connection has failed and her relationship with drew as a friend did not work out as well, which btw is from his end not hers.
 
Ooops, better get back on topic.... Tahan.

Tahan is still one of my favourites and not for any reason.
 
Topaz said:
Ooops, better get back on topic.... Tahan.

Tahan is still one of my favourites and not for any reason.
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Tahan is one of my favourites as well but she's the kind of person you wouldn't want to know unless you were friends with her.
 
Tesa Davies said:
Jealous?
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Come and find out

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I think late night feast put in her comments and making fun of Mikkalya into better context.

There is nothing wrong with Tahan's view that you can't complain about stuff you do.

Mik can complain about her weight but at the end of the day she is eating three plates a meal. Yes it is insensitive to the plight of many people who struggle. However Tahan knows she isn't thin by chance and it's insulting to her to have a negative attitude thrown against her and other thin people. By others who don't have the discipline. Yes she should be more sensitive and understanding. However she's a young person with limited experiences.

There totally is some bias against people who actively try and stay thin and in shape. As if it's not something that takes effort or discipline. People like Mikya wish and want it to be easy for those people to excuse the fact they don't have the discipline. The fact is, there's nothing wrong with lacking that set of skills. Just don't hate on those that do have it.
 
up_all_night said:
I think late night feast put in her comments and making fun of Mikkalya into better context.

There is nothing wrong with Tahan's view that you can't complain about stuff you do.

Mik can complain about her weight but at the end of the day she is eating three plates a meal. Yes it is insensitive to the plight of many people who struggle. However Tahan knows she isn't thin by chance and it's insulting to her to have a negative attitude thrown against her and other thin people. By others who don't have the discipline. Yes she should be more sensitive and understanding. However she's a young person with limited experiences.

There totally is some bias against people who actively try and stay thin and in shape. As if it's not something that takes effort or discipline. People like Mikya wish and want it to be easy for those people to excuse the fact they don't have the discipline. The fact is, there's nothing wrong with lacking that set of skills. Just don't hate on those that do have it.
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Tahan could be a lot nicer person with a bit of an effort. She could try and not be such a bitch. There are plenty of other people out there that manage it. etc etc etc. Nobody is perfect and we all have our issues we struggle with. Brain chemistry has a lot to do with how people cope with certain situations. Some people are actually addicted to exercise, and it has nothing to do with discipline. Some people are predisposed to eating disorders of various kinds. It makes it a lot harder to do something that comes easy to others. Tahan should not have said what she did, and she knew it.
 
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