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The hate for Tully is disturbing

Miiiiike said:
Here's my take on it: Tully is an amazing girl, absolutely gorgeous, very emotional (Which I find cute and sweet)... I would move the earth to be with her...

If its true that she hasn't felt as loved as she should have been, then the people she has been with in the past don't deserve her.

Her "girlfriend" had a pretty laidback attitude to Tully "cheating" didn't she? Her twitter posts virtually saying "so what, life goes on, hot babes come at me". Is that the attitude of someone who took their relationship seriously? If she really loved Tully, wouldn't she be a little more devastated? Even if the relationship is as good as over.

Tully is obviously a very emotional person (some might say mentally unstable!) who needs a lot of comforting, she needs a person who would worship the ground she walks on, (yes, not all girls need or want this) from the responses of Tahlia, I doubt she ever got that, but she definitely needs and deserves it.
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Someone who is friends with her on FB said that she's trying to be somewhat nonchalant on Twitter but she is really hurting. She just doesn't want to make it public and I can't blame her. She hasn't accepted friend requests through FB since this shit went down, she's had radio stations bother her friends asking for her contact details and disgusting TV Week put her on their cover so she's keeping things under wraps. And this is also to protect Tully from the threats, etc. She's handled it 1000 times better than I would have if that were my partner and instead of taking the easy way out ie making a few bucks from doing interviews and encouraging the backlash against Tully, she's shown her class and risen above it all.

As for your comments re moving the Earth to be with her, I can only say there's no accounting for taste.
 
The amount of hate Tully gets makes me like her lol I feel like people overreact to everything she does and it drives me insane. I don't condone the cheating tho - it makes me cringe when I see the "ily" moments and the kisses but I'm not gonna hate her for it because it doesn't affect me. I feel sorry for her gf but it's not my life.
 
Personally i feel that no one who doesn't know either Tully or gf, really don't have the right to say anything about their relationship on these boards. Their relationship was and is between them. Tully has done what she has done and that is that, personally i feel that tully does need to stop talking as if she is in relationship, kissing drew and saying i love you to him, is cheating and why would she assume she still has a gf, most people would think it is over after that.

I do think as a newbie on here, some peoples hatred toward her can be a bit much but each to their own. I am not exactly a tully supporter and her crying is irritating me at times though it is also what makes tv and has us all watching BB even if we hate it or love it.
 
up_all_night said:
Do people really hate Tully?
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I would hate to be around her in my real life. I dislike truckloads about her and like very little. But do I actually 'feel' hatred towards her? No. I'm a grown up and she is some random on a TV show. She would need to torture and kill Mr Clooney for me to have that much emotion towards her.
 
Maybe she really is upset when someone gets evicted.
Or she is so relieved and happy that she wasn't the one who got evicted that she cries.

Either way, that's emotional.
 
Ali.O said:
Personally i feel that no one who doesn't know either Tully or gf, really don't have the right to say anything about their relationship on these boards. Their relationship was and is between them.
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I really think a lot of people seem to miss the point of this show ... HMs go on TV to have people vote on whether they are worthy of the $250k reward. To vote for a HM you must judge them and one way is by comparison to your own morals and values. Tully;s relationship status and actions say a lot about her morals .... she's either in to be judged or she shouldn't be in at all.. .. there's no half way game.
 
talene said:
she is not emotional. self interest is not an emotion.
all her carry on is an attempt to manipulate people in order to get what she wants.
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Agreed. It has become very apparent this last week, that she can TURN ON/TURN OFF whenever she chooses. Her choosing to be horrible, well that is just a personality flaw. She will have to deal with the reaction to her actions, as we all do, in reality or on a reality show.
 
Chump said:
I really think a lot of people seem to miss the point of this show ... HMs go on TV to have people vote on whether they are worthy of the $250k reward. To vote for a HM you must judge them and one way is by comparison to your own morals and values. Tully;s relationship status and actions say a lot about her morals .... she's either in to be judged or she shouldn't be in at all.. .. there's no half way game.
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VERY WELL stated! You hit that dead on it [MENTION=34873]Chump[/MENTION]!~
 
In my opinion (just an opinion) Tully's whole outlook comes from being emotionally needy.

1. She thinks about what makes her feel better. Is tactile and wants affection because it makes her feel better. She doesn't consider the bigger picture and how if might affect other people. She just needs it, and anyone who can't understand that doesn't love her.

2. She thinks she loves people more than they love her because she always will need more than they can give. The moment they're out of her sight or touch she isn't reassured that they still love her and she needs that reassurance.

3. In an argument any difference of point of view is seen as a personal betrayal. She takes as an affront someone disagreeing and will interrupt them, call them out for yelling when they aren't. She has been betrayed.

4. She says she is empathetic, and does care about others, but cares more about how their feelings are impacting on her, and will give examples of things that have happened to HER in the past as a reference for understanding.

I think that Tully is book-smart but selfish in that consideration for the bigger impact her actions cause. Even in conversations about wanting to be married by 30, she's talking about finding someone to marry her, she probably never even thought 'wow, I'm with someone so how does that make them feel?'.

I think that having a mother who is unaware of her and who has forgotten about her definitely has impacted on Tully not wanting to be forgotten by anyone again.

In any case, I do think she has issues and I personally find her quite draining to watch.
 
Hope4Rain said:
VERY WELL stated! You hit that dead on it [MENTION=34873]Chump[/MENTION]!~
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Howdy [MENTION=25431]Hope4Rain[/MENTION] ... always nice to hear from you

As for the above, it's all common sense stuff really. Sadly common sense is not as common as the term suggests
 
@ chump I'm not saying people don't have the right to judge her actions. I just mean by what other people have said about how her gf has reacted and her relationship between her and her gf before she went in the house. Her relationship between her and her gf on the outside shouldn't be other peoples business when you don't know either of them.

Yes they put themselves on show but for what they do during the show not outside of the show. I agree they do say a lot about her morals but people don't have the right to comment on something that doesn't involve them is how i feel and like i said each to their own, you can feel how you want to, etc.
 
Chump said:
Howdy [MENTION=25431]Hope4Rain[/MENTION] ... always nice to hear from you

As for the above, it's all common sense stuff really. Sadly common sense is not as common as the term suggests
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Is that common sense comment referred to me?
 
Chump said:
I really think a lot of people seem to miss the point of this show ... HMs go on TV to have people vote on whether they are worthy of the $250k reward. To vote for a HM you must judge them and one way is by comparison to your own morals and values. Tully;s relationship status and actions say a lot about her morals .... she's either in to be judged or she shouldn't be in at all.. .. there's no half way game.
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This.
 
Ali.O said:
Is that common sense comment referred to me?
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Oh don't do a Tully it's not all about you haha (I am just joking there)

No it wasn't specifically directed at you, nor not at you. It's sadly a statement that I find applies a lot in life ... I was referring to what I wrote about people going into the game as being a common sense view (which I still think it is)
 
Miiiiike said:
Here's my take on it: Tully is an amazing girl, absolutely gorgeous, very emotional (Which I find cute and sweet)... I would move the earth to be with her...

If its true that she hasn't felt as loved as she should have been, then the people she has been with in the past don't deserve her.

Her "girlfriend" had a pretty laidback attitude to Tully "cheating" didn't she? Her twitter posts virtually saying "so what, life goes on, hot babes come at me". Is that the attitude of someone who took their relationship seriously? If she really loved Tully, wouldn't she be a little more devastated? Even if the relationship is as good as over.

Tully is obviously a very emotional person (some might say mentally unstable!) who needs a lot of comforting, she needs a person who would worship the ground she walks on, (yes, not all girls need or want this) from the responses of Tahlia, I doubt she ever got that, but she definitely needs and deserves it.
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You're taking the piss......surely?
 
Chump said:
Oh don't do a Tully it's not all about you haha (I am just joking there)

No it wasn't specifically directed at you, nor not at you. It's sadly a statement that I find applies a lot in life ... I was referring to what I wrote about people going into the game as being a common sense view (which I still think it is)
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oh ok cool. no i wasn't doing a tully lol. I just wanted to make sure how to take that comment, so i didn't take it as a tully lol.
 
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