After having time to reflect, because I was quite angry when I watched the episode and reacted to that deplorable kitchen scene, my mind hasn't changed. Whatever any of us have to say about ONE particular HM regarding her emotional swings, constant anger and attention seeking mannerisms, the instance of this latest issue of violence (towards our beloved Drew or anyone else) is a serious matter.
Noticing that another poster responded out of the same place I had once been in (domestic violence) means its a touchy subject matter with people who have been in those types of relationships. And Believe me, if you haven't, To leave that kind of situation is difficult because generally you're self worth is what the abuser takes first, then the physical starts occurring. When it gets bad enough you will leave in the middle of the night, tip toeing out with what ever you can to leave. Now that I have blathered on, will get back on track!
The "action" was the truth being revealed about the fake party and Tim and Drew's involvement. HER "reaction" to Drew was more colorful than any other HMs. She had been berating and negatively power tripping over Drew the previous day. Add to this equation her sleeping with him at night, giving her a sense of intimate involvement (not necessarily physical but mental and emotional) with Him. As many have IMO correctly stated, she wasn't mad at the FAKE party, but at her exclusion of knowledge of the charade by Drew.
We have all seen the tantrums and the fits but this fit was different. We have all at one time or another, gave a friendly smack to the arm of a friend at the onset of Shocking News, but again this was different. She reared back smacking then hitting and continued. Drew then places his arm as to protect himself and she continued. Her comfort in her actions might lead one to believe, she's pretty comfortable with her own violent behaviour.
AS I stated in a previous post on another thread, Violence by BB should not be tolerated at any level. Had this been a male instigating this behavior He would have been removed from the house immediately! Fair play for all or it's a no go for me.
I will now stop this post, as I know it's not a "fun" topic but felt it needed to be addressed. DREW love abound
Thank you for your indulgence. DREW for the WIN!!!!!