Big Brother 2013
1. Tully had a girlfriend before entering the house.
2. Tully started a relationship with Drew while in the house.
3. Tully's girlfriend has made a decision to leave the relationship, which Tully won't know until she leaves the house.
Big Brother 2002
1. Marty had a girlfriend before entering the house.
2. Marty started a relationship with Jess while in the house.
3. Marty's girlfriend made a decision to leave the relationship, which Marty didn't know until he left the house.
But... I don't remember anyone putting this much effort into hating Marty and publicly ripping him to shreds. There were discussions that painted him as "not too flash", but they didn't reach fever pitch. I don't remember any of his friends making statements about not being able to condone his behaviour, and then withdrawing their efforts to keep him in the house (quite the opposite). He even went on to be the runner up that season.
What are the differences here? Is it that society is more accepting of men in these situations, and more willing to condemn women?
Marty was a likeable country boy and a bit of a larrikin. Do we have one set of relationship rules for people who are conventionally likeable, and another for those who are harder to take to?
Is the fact that the LGBT community are still in a lot of ways (unfortunately) a marginalised group, making people want to fight Tully's girlfriend's battle more fervently?
Two very similar situations, and two extremely different reactions from both friends and the viewers.
1. Tully had a girlfriend before entering the house.
2. Tully started a relationship with Drew while in the house.
3. Tully's girlfriend has made a decision to leave the relationship, which Tully won't know until she leaves the house.
Big Brother 2002
1. Marty had a girlfriend before entering the house.
2. Marty started a relationship with Jess while in the house.
3. Marty's girlfriend made a decision to leave the relationship, which Marty didn't know until he left the house.
But... I don't remember anyone putting this much effort into hating Marty and publicly ripping him to shreds. There were discussions that painted him as "not too flash", but they didn't reach fever pitch. I don't remember any of his friends making statements about not being able to condone his behaviour, and then withdrawing their efforts to keep him in the house (quite the opposite). He even went on to be the runner up that season.
What are the differences here? Is it that society is more accepting of men in these situations, and more willing to condemn women?
Marty was a likeable country boy and a bit of a larrikin. Do we have one set of relationship rules for people who are conventionally likeable, and another for those who are harder to take to?
Is the fact that the LGBT community are still in a lot of ways (unfortunately) a marginalised group, making people want to fight Tully's girlfriend's battle more fervently?
Two very similar situations, and two extremely different reactions from both friends and the viewers.