Every palliative education I have ever been to indicate that doctors are the worst when it comes to palliative care, with the exception being palliative care doctors of course.Hi Tracey, I went back to sleep. I caught up on my forum reading last night, everyone has been very busy. It saddens me when people have to stoop so low to try to hurt others. I felt for you. But remember you might be hated by some, but you are loved by many.
Yesterday was a tough day with dad. I felt he could benefit from some home O2, so I rang GP, only a specialist can order it. So rang his specialist, he says "that's a great idea". WTF. If it's such a great idea, why didn't u arrange that. So difficult a few days before xmas to arrange these things. Then I said to him, I believe he needs palliative care. He agreed. Yet 4 weeks ago when I mentioned it he said " oh he doesn't need palliative care yet. He doesn't have pain ". I knew some doctors are a little naive to what palliative care is, but really. Sorry I am ranting, was a frustrating and sad day yesterday. Frustrating because I feel like I am banging my head to get Drs to listen, and sad because I have to accept what is going to happen, and I hate seeing him like this.
Make sure you use the resources available to you ie doctors, CNC's, CN's for advice. When you add love to the nursing mix, it can affect your nursing judgement and approach. You have the experts at your fingertips. Use them.
I am just a phone call away if you want unsolicited nursing advice or profanities. Xo