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JordanS said:
Maybe I am still pissed off how you came onto this forum, made up lies and slandered my name? Have you thought about that?

I actually thought you matured a bit until today and was willing to forgive. Oh well I guess.
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Dude, over the last few weeks, we have actually gotten along fairly well on here, and I'm not the only person who noticed that either. I even said when the forums came back that I was starting fresh and putting all drama and stuff behind me, and I also apologised on the whole for anything that happened on here last year.

I don't see how I've been immature at all today. At all! We were having a discussion! A discussion in which I wasn't the only one saying what I was saying, and yet I'm the one who you're deciding to have a problem with. That doesn't make any sense.
 
iJake said:
Dude, over the last few weeks, we have actually gotten along fairly well on here, and I'm not the only person who noticed that either. I even said when the forums came back that I was starting fresh and putting all drama and stuff behind me, and I also apologised on the whole for anything that happened on here last year.

I don't see how I've been immature at all today. At all! We were having a discussion! A discussion in which I wasn't the only one saying what I was saying, and yet I'm the one who you're deciding to have a problem with. That doesn't make any sense.
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You know, I tried to put it all behind us as well. I have tried my best - I see we have gotten along for the past few days / weeks.
Shame really that it has come to this again.

reepbot said:
That wasn't my reason for posting what I did last night and today.
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Well, that's how it eventuated. Oh well I guess.

iJake said:
I wasn't arguing. I was discussing. If you were arguing, that's on you.
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I wasn't referring to you on this one.
 
iJake said:
I had never heard about limerence before, or at least I had never had the word and description for it. I think I may have experienced it once or twice before.
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I had never heard of limerence before either until I searched it on the internet. Another loosely related concept that I had never heard of before I searched on the internet is the term 'friendship zone', which is a very confusing concept for me because the more I read about it the less I understand it. Do you think the term 'friendship zone' is a valid concept?
 
Bluefin said:
Interesting, quick read @JordonS Seems to assume love in the context of relationships. Love is possible without relationships, but there was no description of that love. Maybe it implies, it's not love if there's no relationship?

Maslow also makes a point. Sometimes people seek love to fulfill their imperfect selves - in order to feel whole, connected, valued etc. To satiate needs they're unable to otherwise meet through their own resources. Maslow's point - only at self actualization is a person capable of love. Why? Because they don't 'need' it, but may like to have it. I know people probably won't agree with this. And that's OK. Everyone applies their own shade to things. :)
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Where have you been hiding?!

Beautifully written.
 
JordanS said:
You know, I tried to put it all behind us as well. I have tried my best - I see we have gotten along for the past few days / weeks.
Shame really that it has come to this again.



Well, that's how it eventuated. Oh well I guess.



I wasn't referring to you on this one.
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Even when I'm not trolling I still troll. :(
 
JordanS said:
You know, I tried to put it all behind us as well. I have tried my best - I see we have gotten along for the past few days / weeks.
Shame really that it has come to this again.
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It is a shame! Honestly. I've come to appreciate you a fair amount ever since the forums came back (I just realised it actually hasn't been weeks haha, I'm so bad with time :tongue:) and I don't want it to be like this, really. I just want to get along!
 
reepbot said:
Even when I'm not trolling I still troll. :(
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It's all behind me now. I don't care for this argument - shining it off and blessings for all involved.[DOUBLEPOST=1423983565][/DOUBLEPOST]
iJake said:
It is a shame! Honestly. I've come to appreciate you a fair amount ever since the forums came back (I just realised it actually hasn't been weeks haha, I'm so bad with time :tongue:) and I don't want it to be like this, really. I just want to get along!
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Same here. Let's just put this one behind us, shine it off and blessings. Try not to get into any more heated discussions :P
 
Bluefin said:
Fuck. Find a way for everyone to win. It's a forum that we all enjoy otherwise we wouldn't be here. I'd like some red velvet ones please.
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Sometimes the winning comes when your view is challenged, and in that challenge you learn that an ideal you believe to be 100% true, is in fact flawed.

That realisation can make you the biggest winner of all.

Opposing opinions are what make us reflect and grow. Though to add some truth to the matter, the fact we are all on a forum on a beautiful Sunday afternoon demonstrates no matter how many pretty sparkles you put on it, we are all in fact losers...

Great debating guys.

:)
 
reepbot said:
I had never heard of limerence before either until I searched it on the internet. Another loosely related concept that I had never heard of before I searched on the internet is the term 'friendship zone', which is a very confusing concept for me because the more I read about it the less I understand it. Do you think the term 'friendship zone' is a valid concept?
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Limerence: great word! I too had never heard it till today.

You really are one of the most unique personalities here, Reepbot.
 
iJake, I absolutely love the way you write.

If you don't have either a short story or some poetry for us to enjoy by the end of the month I am going to start biting myself!
 
Consuela said:
Why the diet? Swimsuit season's nearly over now's the time to start slacking off. :p
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Because this inactivity is making me eat, and eat and eat.

I have gained nearly 2kg since Thursday!

I ate a whole box of Cheezels yesterday - as a snack!!!! A SNACK!!

If I keep munching at the rate I am, I will be a fat slug in 4 weeks!!
 
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