It happened ONE FUCKING TIME!!!
Hey sorry to go a bit skinny Oprah, but I have an opinion, and if I don't share my opinion I break out in a rash, so for my haters, please don't blame me for the judgmental self righteousness, it is a condition, if I don't say it, I itch for hours!!
To address the giant elephant in the room (and l am not talking about Caspersmum's fat arse), to me a forum is a condensed version of real life. But without the important cues of effective communication ie tone and body language, so typed words are often misconstrued.
Just like in real life, relationships are formed, some are strong, some don't stand the test of time, some are fun, some are based on indifference and some are down right toxic. Aspects of your personality will change according to the forum subject you are responding to. Some situations will bring out your funny side, or your serious side, your judgmental side, your goofy side, your fragile side, your sensitive side and some will unleash your inner cunt. Forum relationships can bring out the best and the worst in us and that's okay.
It's okay to disagree, it is okay to want to respond if you disagree, or feel you have been mocked or disrespected or had your feelings hurt and it is okay not to like people. When dealing with these situations some of us will use direct communication, some use more elusive "some people" statements to get their point across, some will use cyber threats, some will name call and some will take the dignified option and say nothing. We all deal with confrontation or hurt differently and that too is okay, as long as you apologize for heat of the moment threats/spite/inappropriateness later. We are flawed and sadly we don't behave as we should all of the time. That's life.
Just as in life, I don't believe those awkward moments define you, it is how you move forward from them that does. We are all unique in our personalities and the forum flavour we bring. Some of us are sweet, some of us are bland, some of us are interesting, some of us are strange, some of us are bold, some of us are horrible, some of us are funny, some of some of us are bitter, and some of us are down right fucking crazy, and that's okay.
I can't think of one person w
It happened ONE FUCKING TIME!!!
Hey sorry to go a bit skinny Oprah, but I have an opinion, and if I don't share my opinion I break out in a rash, so for my haters, please don't blame me for the judgmental self righteousness, it is a condition, if I don't say it, I itch for hours!!
To address the giant elephant in the room (and l am not talking about Caspersmum's fat arse), to me a forum is a condensed version of real life. But without the important cues of effective communication ie tone and body language, so typed words are often misconstrued.
Just like in real life, relationships are formed, some are strong, some don't stand the test of time, some are fun, some are based on indifference and some are down right toxic. Aspects of your personality will change according to the forum subject you are responding to. Some situations will bring out your funny side, or your serious side, your judgmental side, your goofy side, your fragile side, your sensitive side and some will unleash your inner cunt. Forum relationships can bring out the best and the worst in us and that's okay.
It's okay to disagree, it is okay to want to respond if you disagree, or feel you have been mocked or disrespected or had your feelings hurt and it is okay not to like people. When dealing with these situations some of us will use direct communication, some use more elusive "some people" statements to get their point across, some will use cyber threats, some will name call and some will take the dignified option and say nothing. We all deal with confrontation or hurt differently and that too is okay, as long as you apologize for heat of the moment threats/spite/inappropriateness later. We are flawed and sadly we don't behave as we should all of the time. That's life.
Just as in life, I don't believe those awkward moments define you, it is how you move forward from them that does. We are all unique in our personalities and the forum flavour we bring. Some of us are sweet, some of us are bland, some of us are interesting, some of us are strange, some of us are bold, some of us are horrible, some of us are funny, some of some of us are bitter, and some of us are down right fucking crazy, and that's okay.
I can't think of one person who I would like to see leave this forum and who doesn't bring an interesting flavour. There is enough room for all of us.
And let's face, a good forum battle every now and then injects a bit of spice. It can't be rainbows, unicorns, oral sex, butt plugs and skid marks all the time can it?!
It's time for some OT make up sex!
Get some hot man gifs happening boys!!!!
