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chads
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I personally think that according to what I've seen lately I wouldn't be suprised if Tully hopped in bed with Tahan the next if Drew got evicted.
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chads
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I think Drew is secretly laughing and high-fiveing himself and can't wait to tell all his friends the story of him being so stud he scored the lesbian of the house. Ed could be right that Drew is just playing Tully. And yeah, relationships started by infidelity don't end happily most of the time.
Veronica2005
Well-Known Member
I think Tully would probably want someone to snuggle/comfort her but not sure if Tahan would go there now LOL Tahan does get a bit flirty/kissed with the girls on Friday night parties but guess her BF would be fine with that since she's being playful.
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chads
Guest
I think I've actually seen a couple of times Tully trying to be "too touchy" with Tahan and she kinda took distance from Tully quickly. Tahan does seem like a faithful person so I don't think she would go there.
jarrah
Well-Known Member
Yep, lacking character, dependent on attention, cries, pitches tantrums and punches Drew if he has fun with others. It's puzzled me for weeks that she's so possessive and jealously controlling of him, while it's actually her that's the untrustworthy liar who betrays their partner.
starstruck
Is Nobbi still in the Kombie?
They are both starved for intimate attention in the house.
Winterbourne
Unfallen Icarus
I disagree on almost every point. Drew is not getting away scott free = his popularity has nose-dived since this became more serious. This forum, the OS, FB etc are all full of hate for him. Some people even call him a scumbag. Some people have a different opinion on this matter, and I see a desperation amungst some 'cheating is bad' posters that seem to be ignoring the possibility that other people out there have a difference of opinion, and much like the old missionaries who knew they were doing God's work by overthrowing indigenous cultures, they are missing a chance to learn. Hey, some people think it is okay to be with someone who has a partner if the one with the partner thinks it is okay. Wow. That seems pretty amoral to me. I must make sure not to marry someone like that. What do you think about this? Yes, I agree, I wouldn't cheat either. Isn't it interesting to live in a heterogeneous world where the structures of the traditional family are changing and emotional people act on their emotions, not reasonably or loyally but following their pleasure. I prefer the traditional way. Look, how these conflicting ideologies are living side by side peacefully in modern Australia. What a lucky country, where people who follow their emotions can persue their pleasures with others like that, and we happy noncheaters can live faithful and fulfilliing lives, safe in the knowledge we wil never cheat or be cheated on.
There are people out there - and all of my very best friends are of this sort, and all are either cancerians or scorpios, like Drew, for what that is worth - who make decisions with their emotions. I do it at every turn. I weigh up my options, think about what to do, and then always choose the emotional choice. Took me into my 30s to realize this is what I did, but I do. And Drew did too. And Tully does too. If I was in that house and met someone else who understood the turbulant pleasures of the emotional train, then you bet I would choose to play with them. And probably regret it, as I regret 2004 (best damn year of my life - but it ruined everything), as I regret The Samoan Incident, and that mafia guy in Vladivostok. Cool stories, but.
There are people out there, in society today, who think with their emotions, and they date their teachers, they have holiday flings, they are the ones that your wife regrets meeting that time in Paris (and thinks about more than you would like), who write albums like Disintegration, who throw it all away for love, who ride the pyrotechnic tiger that breathes nothing but fire, who consistently ruin everything for the fleeting pleasure of 'love' and die naked, cold and alone, of syphilis.
We are out here, and living amungst you. We see your women.
But don't worry - nice girls are boring, An emotional lesbian cheating on her girlfriend on national TV? Dude. That is like Catholic school girl twins or something.
Australia is a mixed, free society. Some people live like this, and some live like Ed, and some live in solitude. The Big Brother house is a cross section. Take it Like the conversations about sex tapes or whatever - there is no right way, but only options, and choose you partners with care.
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annavm
Guest
I wonder if Drew would feel as confident if Tully was dating some meathead on the outside...
Miiiiike
Well-Known Member
As someone who is friends with lesbians, trust me I'd be more scared of the rug munchers than any meathead.
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Pristian
Nice post. I think that if you find out someone is a cheater, just don't enter a relationship with them. It's not fair to conclude that someone is a bad person because they cheated.
MADONNA
Scalp collector
I know [MENTION=11846]Sorceress[/MENTION] would be wearing her FIGHTIN' CROCS at eviction night if she was Tully's gf.
marksman
Used Kombi Salesman
So silly. Drew has no knowledge or understanding of Tully's relationship other than what Tully tells him. If she gives the okay sign it is fair to assume their relationship is over or open or any number of things.
It is crazy to blame drew for this. Just because someone says they are in a relationship does not even make it true. Not to mention relationships are unique and often times confusing.
If Tully says it is okay who is he to argue with her. It would be one thing if he knew both Tully and her girlfriend and had witnessed their relationship but that is not the case. Plenty of times people exxagerate and fabricate their relationship status. When push comes to shove and drew asks her over and over again if she is okay with it and she says yes what is he supposed to do.
People are applying crazy standards on free without actually having any real understanding of Tully's relationship with her girlfriend. Ultimately that all falls onto Tully.
If Tully decided she didn't want to be with her girlfriend the day she walked into the house how is that ANYONE'S business but she and her girlfriend? None of us know the status or details of their relationship going into the house and neither does Drew.
It is simply dumb and ignorant to blame Drew at all. Tully never told him we shouid not do this or we should stop because of her girlfriend.
People act like all relationships are the same. They also think because they read a few tweets from Tully's girlfriend they have some kind of extensive insight into their actual relationship.
marksman
Used Kombi Salesman
Maybe they are broken up then. Tully could certainly decide they are broken up. People mistakenly think they need to sit down and discuss it to break up. Given the circumstances making that impossible that is silly.
Again none of us have any actual insight into their relationship.
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chads
Guest
You have every right to your opinion as do I. I didn't bother to quote the rest of your post as I think it's way off-topic ranting and psychoanalyzing. Missionary doing god's work? LOL give me a break. It's my opinion that cheaters are liars and I despise both. You can still act on your emotions without cheating. Just break it off with the current partner before getting new one. It's SIMPLE.
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chads
Guest
Do they know all these insulting names you call them?
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chads
Guest
There's a high chance that a cheater will behave similarly in other parts of their lives too. Unfortunately I have real life experience of this. Cheating is basically same as lying, betraying, being dishonest. Why would I want a friend who is not trustworthy? They will just bring you down at some point.
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chads
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Exactly. There's very high chance that a relationship started as an affair will end up one or both of the cheaters cheating again. Cheaters lose their interest when everything comes out and it's not thrilling anymore. Although I think there's a high chance Drew will run back to his ex-gf leaving Tully with nothing. He even said to Tully he would leave everything, including Tully, if his ex took him back
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chads
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How the heck you come to that conclusion? An open relationship? Of course cheaters lie about their relationship, that's what cheaters do: lie. They lie about it to justify their own actions. This is basic human psychology.
With your logic just because someone says they are married does not make it true. Not to mention marriages are unique and often times confusing.
How do you know what Tully has said?
You are just another hetero male trying to undermine Tully's relationship with her gf just because she is a girl.
Drew is not thinking her gf at all. He is a selfish prick who only thinks about himself. He is willing to ruin a relationship just so he can get laid.
tilliii
Active Member
That's the thing..they're not.