I think Tahan is one of those people who just goes off when she gets mad - like the filter between brain and mouth stops working and she says whatever will 'win' her the argument. Then afterwards she thinks about and thinks oh crap maybe I shouldn't have said that. I don't think that this makes her a bad person, unfortunately once something is said it's hard to un-say it and that can be pretty awkward when you're stuck in a house lol
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Max Power
Well-Known Member
Maybe but if say, Matt was Asian and said similar comments, I can't imagine Tahan being so quick to call Matt a racist. Imo this has more to do with her hatred for Mikkayla than her being sensitive to racism.
Yeah that's fair enough too, I think it's fair to say she's a bit more sensitive than others about it though.
Connoisseur
Well-Known Member
It's poorly disguised but there's definitely traces of self loathing in Kay's comments about her asian heritage. One of the many reasons I've come to dislike Kay, she's just annoying in general to be honest can't blame Tully for not being able to stand her.
Racism comes in all forms. I agree Tahan shoots her mouth off when she sees red. Well, Mikkayla fares no better when she accuses Tahan of being selfish. Jade doesn't like Tahan because she has a bond with Ed, the sisters find her mean all because of a set of extensions and then bitched abt the pancakes. Well, everyone's a bitch, Tahan for being brutally honest and mimicry, Mikkayla for her insecurities, the sisters for being airheads perpetuating dumb blonds, Tully, the emotional sucking bitch and Jade, a bitch in heat. There, I've said it. All the guys are Dogs with Tim being the Alpha male or so he thinks. The house needs new blood.
Sonia
Well-Known Member
Kay has been raised with a white family, my background is Indian..I was raised in a very white town and as a child I hated any point of difference I had that made it easier for people to treat me differently and first and foremost was my Indian heritage and brown skin, maybe Kay has issues with her background and resents being unable to connect with it on a deeper level.
It may also just be that she hates that her being asian is a point of reference for people not how funny she is or how bubbly she is and will always just be her nationality first and foremost to others? It's tricky.
It may also just be that she hates that her being asian is a point of reference for people not how funny she is or how bubbly she is and will always just be her nationality first and foremost to others? It's tricky.
murf
Well-Known Member
This is really weird for me my mum's name is Kay :/ i'm getting so confused
Yeah it's confusing me too. If they have to shorten her name, might as well use the nickname she gets called in the house - Mik.
Winterbourne
Unfallen Icarus
Who?????
Lucy, who is that????
Oh your talking about the double act, which fake one is Lucy?
Yeah, great role models - for the 1950s.
Tahan should eat one for breakfast - the tag team is getting boring
I thought she handled herself very well in the backyard with Tahan - completely put her in her place, bamboozled her, looked graceful and assured, and made Tahan backtrack an look like a liar. It was quite surprising, as the whole bimbo sister act was all we had seen of them yet.
These sisters are not favourites of mine by any means, but they are not what I thought at first glance. At dinner the other night when they talked about religion and life after death etc Ed's contribution was 'I was raised catholic. I go to church if Mum wants me to.' Yeah. Cool story, bro. Katie based her response on her own experience killing patients in her hospital. It was not profound, but she had thought it through and come up with her own idea. Tim's point was the most interesting - that God is greater than the church - but, surprisingly the sisters are not the dumbest in there. Their habitual act is irritating, but in any tough situation I have yet to see them falter, unlike Jade, Tully, Mikkayla, Heidi or Tahan, who have all lost their dignity, their mind, their temper, been bitches or vain.
kxk
SAPIOSEXUAL
Oh I don't think they are dumb, rather sneaky.
It's just a breeze doing this with your sister watching your back day and night.
They have every little thing already worked out before the spokesperson delivers.
And I'm sorry you cannot convince me having a tag team isn't an enormously unfair advantage - you KNOW you have someone you can trust & plot with and use to lie for you as back up.
And if you want to present yourselves as 50s ditzy bleach heads, all giggle and shriek - well do not complain when that is who you are to me - that's their thing and what they want isn't it?
And damn shame Katie doesn't speak - I too found what she said about death and that emptiness in the room the most interesting thing .
Lucy needs to shut up, god she needs to shut up
It's just a breeze doing this with your sister watching your back day and night.
They have every little thing already worked out before the spokesperson delivers.
And I'm sorry you cannot convince me having a tag team isn't an enormously unfair advantage - you KNOW you have someone you can trust & plot with and use to lie for you as back up.
And if you want to present yourselves as 50s ditzy bleach heads, all giggle and shriek - well do not complain when that is who you are to me - that's their thing and what they want isn't it?
And damn shame Katie doesn't speak - I too found what she said about death and that emptiness in the room the most interesting thing .
Lucy needs to shut up, god she needs to shut up

I beg to differ, that is under no circumstances a bully. A bully is one who intimidates, coerce by physical use or force. She is direct and brutally honest yes.Tahan is a bully in the house and this is NOT what the BB house is about! that is all i have to say PERIOD.
kxk
SAPIOSEXUAL
Racism comes in all forms. I agree Tahan shoots her mouth off when she sees red. Well, Mikkayla fares no better when she accuses Tahan of being selfish. Jade doesn't like Tahan because she has a bond with Ed, the sisters find her mean all because of a set of extensions and then bitched abt the pancakes. Well, everyone's a bitch, Tahan for being brutally honest and mimicry, Mikkayla for her insecurities, the sisters for being airheads perpetuating dumb blonds, Tully, the emotional sucking bitch and Jade, a bitch in heat. There, I've said it. All the guys are Dogs with Tim being the Alpha male or so he thinks. The house needs new blood.
Or just some blood......passion, wake-up, where's that friggin war!
Maybe more ambi pur.............eeeeeeek.
I love your post, what do they call those little study books? Can't remember, shit that's annoying
You know the summary things - nutshells.....................BB2013 in Nutshell, half way, by Boofuls, fabulous
lafirenze
Active Member
I'd go with super sensitive, she does seem to be over-serious about the topic of her own race and is probably the same in general about race too.
As someone who is also mixed, I can say that there is a reason why people like us are "over-serious" about race. When you grow up getting asked what your ethnicity is before someone even asks for your name, it can be an issue. When people constantly make stereotypes, or place you in the "oh, you're not like the rest of them!" camp, it becomes a problem. I can understand Tahan's point of view completely... and I can see why Mikkayla's comments bother her, because they also bother me. I get that Mikkayla hates being pointed out that she's asian over and over - it's annoying - but she does go a little too far with the taking the mick out of stereotypes. There's a point where you cross the funny line, and I think she probably does from time-to-time.
The interesting part is that Mikkayla was actually BORN in Korea, so she actually does have a real connection to Asia besides her actual ethnicity. I can see her being the type who was raised very far away from the notion of remembering your roots as I've met lots of people who behave the same way she does and had the same experience growing up. At the same time, maybe it's her way of coping with some racist remarks. Either way, I wouldn't give Mikkayla a hard time but Tahan is allowed to get annoyed as a fellow Asian. Tahan doesn't really fit any stereotypes of her own background, so you can see she's spent much of her time fighting them. I am the same way.
Just for the info, I'm of mixed ethnicity as well, not as gorgeous as Tahan though. [MENTION=899]kxk[/MENTION], I'll take that as a compliment. In actuality none of them deserves Such harsh criticism. I'm a sucker for the underdog. I've declared Tahan my ward until she leaves. She has traits in her which I admire and doesn't deserve the extreme bashing from the pro misfits ( they call themselves)
A
Autumn
Guest
I think it's funny how she hates fake people, but hangs around Ed - the fakest person in the house.
It seems to me she just has a problem with other girls.
It seems to me she just has a problem with other girls.
abbie1217
New Member
As someone who is also mixed, I can say that there is a reason why people like us are "over-serious" about race. When you grow up getting asked what your ethnicity is before someone even asks for your name, it can be an issue. When people constantly make stereotypes, or place you in the "oh, you're not like the rest of them!" camp, it becomes a problem. I can understand Tahan's point of view completely... and I can see why Mikkayla's comments bother her, because they also bother me. I get that Mikkayla hates being pointed out that she's asian over and over - it's annoying - but she does go a little too far with the taking the mick out of stereotypes. There's a point where you cross the funny line, and I think she probably does from time-to-time.
The interesting part is that Mikkayla was actually BORN in Korea, so she actually does have a real connection to Asia besides her actual ethnicity. I can see her being the type who was raised very far away from the notion of remembering your roots as I've met lots of people who behave the same way she does and had the same experience growing up. At the same time, maybe it's her way of coping with some racist remarks. Either way, I wouldn't give Mikkayla a hard time but Tahan is allowed to get annoyed as a fellow Asian. Tahan doesn't really fit any stereotypes of her own background, so you can see she's spent much of her time fighting them. I am the same way.
I'm half Maori and I mock my kiwi accent all the time. I have a half Indian friend that also mocks her Indian accents and certain stereotypes all the time and i know a lot of people that do but we still embrace our culture. I get that Tahan is sensitive about the topic but accusing someone of racism is a BIG DEAL. And if Mikkaylas comments were racist, she'd be getting more backlash. Bottom line is most people don't see anything wrong with what Mikkayla said and if Tahan is the direct and honest person everyone says she is then she should've spoken to Mikkayla about it first before throwing the word "racist" around.
Winterbourne
Unfallen Icarus
I am Australian of Irish stock, and I go into a full ocker sometimes. Is that 'racist'?
I recall once when Tahan and Jazz were talking about racism, and she said she went along with a joke at first, then on reflection decided that she wasn't actually okay with it. If Tahan was talking in a Malaysian or Chinese or Aboriginal accent (and I don't remember seeing it; just reading about it here), but if she did maybe it didn't sit right with her because it dawned on her as being 'racist.'
As a whitey skip mick convict I am not sure if I can have an opinion on this, but Mikkayla does seem to wish she was European. Hmm, looks like I am on Tahan.
I recall once when Tahan and Jazz were talking about racism, and she said she went along with a joke at first, then on reflection decided that she wasn't actually okay with it. If Tahan was talking in a Malaysian or Chinese or Aboriginal accent (and I don't remember seeing it; just reading about it here), but if she did maybe it didn't sit right with her because it dawned on her as being 'racist.'
As a whitey skip mick convict I am not sure if I can have an opinion on this, but Mikkayla does seem to wish she was European. Hmm, looks like I am on Tahan.
abbie1217
New Member
I think it's funny how she hates fake people, but hangs around Ed - the fakest person in the house.
It seems to me she just has a problem with other girls.
The fact that she's closest to Matt, Ed, Tully and Drew tells me she isn't really good at judging anyone's character.