The hate for Tully is disturbing

[Sorceress]

She deserves it.

Hopefully she goes on Monday with boos (like in BBUK)

The hate Tully has for everyone else is disturbing. She needs to hear the boos on Monday night!

Really, you're actually hoping she gets booed?
I don't think anyone should get booed.

 

[keke]

I think your tin foil hat might be on a little tight!

No. Its fallen off. Had you taken off your rose colored glasses you would have seen that.

I think that the whole break up scenario is one that Tully could have organized before the show started.

 

[Insomniac]

No. Its fallen off. Had you taken off your rose colored glasses you would have seen that.

I think that the whole break up scenario is one that Tully could have organized before the show started.

Here we go again with the made-up scenarios to justify behaviour. And obvs not as she's still talking about her g/f in the house. Can we all stick to what is on BB and not make up converstaions they may or may not have had with loved ones? Gees.

 

[whiteflowers]

No. Its fallen off. Had you taken off your rose colored glasses you would have seen that.

I think that the whole break up scenario is one that Tully could have organized before the show started.

Oh dear, how much more excuses do we need to make up for her. She has obviously just done some terrible things in the house, and in need of some help when she comes out. I don't hate her. I just feel sorry for her.

 

[Sorceress]

No. Its fallen off. Had you taken off your rose colored glasses you would have seen that.

I think that the whole break up scenario is one that Tully could have organized before the show started.

The problem with this view is it's completely illogical.
When Glenn cheated on a previous BB, the public weren't impressed and he copped it.
There's no planning going on here, I think Tully has no idea about boundaries and maybe this isn't the first time she's crossed the line.

 

[Tee]

Yeah, perhaps Reality TV isn't for you then. If you're after Tv scripted romances and storylines.

Ha!

Hahahahahahahahahaha!

And they lived happily ever after....

 

[Tee]

The problem with this view is it's completely illogical.
When Glenn cheated on a previous BB, the public weren't impressed and he copped it.
There's no planning going on here, I think Tully has no idea about boundaries and maybe this isn't the first time she's crossed the line.

I can't believe the outrage over this attraction!

Newsflash Nelly's! :- PEOPLE CHEAT! That is life, I am not saying it is right, but it is life. I have cheated and been cheated on, and while neither situation is ideal, it is what it is. Sometimes that sexual attraction is simply so strong, it is almost impossible not to act on. Again not ideal, but it is what it is.

I have been with my partner for 15 years and he is easily the nicest man I have ever met. So far I have been seriously tempted by lust twice while with him. And I can tell you, with a healthy amount of shame, had I been locked in a house with either of theses guys 24/7 to have the attraction grow piece by piece to the point my reality and my lust were blurred, I can't say in all certainty that I wouldn't have responded in the same regretful manner.

Honesty it is like some of you have no idea what lust feels like. Just because you are in love with someone doesn't mean you stop being attracted to other people. Given that Tully could be bisexual, that just doubles her potential lustfilled problems!

 

[Insomniac]

People do lots of repugnant things but does that mean we have to like it?

 

[whiteflowers]

I can't believe the outrage over this attraction!

Newsflash Nelly's! :- PEOPLE CHEAT! That is life, I am not saying it is right, but it is life. I have cheated and been cheated on, and while neither situation is ideal, it is what it is. Sometimes that sexual attraction is simply so strong, it is almost impossible not to act on. Again not ideal, but it is what it is.

I have been with my partner for 15 years and he is easily the nicest man I have ever met. So far I have been seriously tempted by lust twice while with him. And I can tell you, with a healthy amount of shame, had I been locked in a house with either of theses guys 24/7 to have the attraction grow piece by piece to the point my reality and my lust were blurred, I can't say in all certainty that I wouldn't have responded in the same regretful manner.

Honesty it is like some of you have no idea what lust feels like. Just because you are in love with someone doesn't mean you stop being attracted to other people. Given that Tully could be bisexual, that just doubles her potential lustfilled problems!

What you'e said is a cop out - people are attracted to others , yes, but we ALWAYS have a choice whether to act on it or not. If she is attracted to him and cares about her partner, she could start by distancing herself a little and staying away from him at night and hanging out with other people! It's almost like she's tempting fate by sleeping with him every night, spooning him and what not.

 

[Sorceress]

I can't believe the outrage over this attraction!

Newsflash Nelly's! :- PEOPLE CHEAT! That is life, I am not saying it is right, but it is life. I have cheated and been cheated on, and while neither situation is ideal, it is what it is. Sometimes that sexual attraction is simply so strong, it is almost impossible not to act on. Again not ideal, but it is what it is.

I have been with my partner for 15 years and he is easily the nicest man I have ever met. So far I have been seriously tempted by lust twice while with him. And I can tell you, with a healthy amount of shame, had I been locked in a house with either of theses guys 24/7 to have the attraction grow piece by piece to the point my reality and my lust were blurred, I can't say in all certainty that I wouldn't have responded in the same regretful manner.

Honesty it is like some of you have no idea what lust feels like. Just because you are in love with someone doesn't mean you stop being attracted to other people. Given that Tully could be bisexual, that just doubles her potential lustfilled problems!

That's all very well and good Trala, but she's also on national televison with her friends, family and girlfriend watching her.
I think that's pretty disrespectful on her part, I'd have to be paraletic drunk to consider doing that.

 

[MissKLee]

Indeed. We don't have to like it.

And just because we don't like it doesn't mean we want to only see some scripted romantic storyline either. We just may not want to see that particular character in action anymore.

 

[MissKLee]

Just because it is 'reality tv' and it 'happens all the time' does not mean we have to respect it. We are all entitled to our thoughts and to air them in a public forum if we so wish.

EDIT- excuse the double post.

 

[Christina]

That's all very well and good Trala, but she's also on national televison with her friends, family and girlfriend watching her.
I think that's pretty disrespectful on her part, I'd have to be paraletic drunk to consider doing that.

If they're genuinely attracted to each other couldn't they have waited till they left the house to start a relationship?
Would have been the right thing to do by everyone, including themselves and Drew may well have maintained his chances of winning the 250K.

 

[keke]

Oh dear, how much more excuses do we need to make up for her. She has obviously just done some terrible things in the house, and in need of some help when she comes out. I don't hate her. I just feel sorry for her.

I'm not making up excuses. I'm saying that she may have a game plan. Whatever Tully is she is not unintelligent.

 

[Queen Alla]

I can't believe the outrage over this attraction!

Newsflash Nelly's! :- PEOPLE CHEAT! That is life, I am not saying it is right, but it is life. I have cheated and been cheated on, and while neither situation is ideal, it is what it is. Sometimes that sexual attraction is simply so strong, it is almost impossible not to act on. Again not ideal, but it is what it is.

I have been with my partner for 15 years and he is easily the nicest man I have ever met. So far I have been seriously tempted by lust twice while with him. And I can tell you, with a healthy amount of shame, had I been locked in a house with either of theses guys 24/7 to have the attraction grow piece by piece to the point my reality and my lust were blurred, I can't say in all certainty that I wouldn't have responded in the same regretful manner.

Honesty it is like some of you have no idea what lust feels like. Just because you are in love with someone doesn't mean you stop being attracted to other people. Given that Tully could be bisexual, that just doubles her potential lustfilled problems!

Everyone feels sexual attraction to others. Everyone also has a choice how to handle that. You make it sound like cheating is some inevitable force that no one can deny, when it is only those that are self centred and thinking of their own 'desires' and not respecting other people that they supposedly care about, that wind up cheating.

 

[Tee]

That's all very well and good Trala, but she's also on national televison with her friends, family and girlfriend watching her.
I think that's pretty disrespectful on her part, I'd have to be paraletic drunk to consider doing that.

I know.

And I think it is an awful thing for her girlfriend to endure and her family to witness, but surely we can all relate on some level. Even if you haven't personally experienced that awful sense of naughty lust, we all know people who have been affected by that dreaded third person. This is a basic human response to lust, and lust is powerful. It can affect you to the point you are obsessed with just throwing a leg over and being done with it, just so you can move on.

And even you admit, given the right circumstance (paralytic drunk) it could be considered.

I know how hard it is to fight attraction in the real world where you have opportunities for escape and you are able to confide in your girls on what you are feeling to get perspective, and bounce off your partner as a reminder of how good you have it. Imagine being trapped with a person who zings your lustometer, add alcohol, party games, a hot spa and a blurred reality. I probably would have ridden him like Black Caviar by now!

 

[jooles_x]

And I can tell you, with a healthy amount of shame, had I been locked in a house with either of theses guys 24/7 to have the attraction grow piece by piece to the point my reality and my lust were blurred, I can't say in all certainty that I wouldn't have responded in the same regretful manner.

Well I guess that explains why you are defending her. That's pretty horrible. I would take a bullet before betraying my partner.

 

[keke]

The problem with this view is it's completely illogical.
When Glenn cheated on a previous BB, the public weren't impressed and he copped it.
There's no planning going on here, I think Tully has no idea about boundaries and maybe this isn't the first time she's crossed the line.

Tully, by her actions, is keeping herself front and center. Whether she considers that a good or bad thing I do not know.

 

[Queen Alla]

I'm not making up excuses. I'm saying that she may have a game plan. Whatever Tully is she is not unintelligent.

She's not unintelligent, no. But from what we have seen (which I admit is very little) she lacks emotional regulation and common sense.

 

[Tee]

Everyone feels sexual attraction to others. Everyone also has a choice how to handle that. You make it sound like cheating is some inevitable force that no one can deny, when it is only those that are self centred and thinking of their own 'desires' and not respecting other people that they supposedly care about, that wind up cheating.

I am not saying that.

I am saying imagine how hard it would be to cope with that feeling of lust, and having no reality to balance it. I totally agree that we are responsible for our own actions, but lust can make normal people bonkers.

I haven't acted on it with my current partner, but those two times so far where I have veen seriously tempted, at times not acting on it affected me to the point of being miserable, because I wanted to shag him more than I wanted to breathe. I am not saying that is right, that is the way I felt at the time.

I am not sure how I would have managed had I been trapped in a party house 24/7 with either of theses lust buckets and without my reality to stop me blurring those lines.