IMO, cheating is cheating. maybe I just don't understand this "emotional cheating" phrase people keep using. With the way Tully and Drew go at each other, call it what it is, cheating. You don't have to be having sex to be cheating either. If they, T&T, have an 'open' relationship, as another post said, that's all well and good and they'll have to deal with the consequences of that decision. There is no such thing as a pseudo-open relationship. You are either exclusive or you're okay to watch the person you love mess around with others. I was dumbfounded when Tully said "When I'm with a woman I'm a lesbian, when I'm with a man I'm bi. Tully, you are not a lesbian when you're with a woman and then bi when you're with a man. When you're good to go with a man or woman you're bi, period. I hope T&T can work things out or at least go their separate ways without too much anger. I think the pre-BB Tully might have been a really great person to hang with and hope her friends remember that when she gets out. As for Drew, shame on you for being a weak willed SOB. What do you think that girl on the outside, the one you told Tully you'd throw away everything for, would think of you? Messing around with a person you know is in a relationship! Don't anyone give me that 'they're young' crap either, if you're old enough to be in a relationship you know what your responsibilities are. Sheesh! I could just keep going but I think you'll like it better if I just stop now.